Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Yes, they're really moving!
It's a beautiful 4500 square foot 6 bedroom 5 bathroom home on the edge of the mountains. It's 200 yards from a Stake Center, and just 1 stoplight away from the Las Vegas LDS Temple. The real estate market in Las Vegas has been suffering for a while, and the asking price for the house was hundreds of thousands of dollars below its appraised value. They couldn't have asked for a better deal, and the location is simply perfect for them. He called my mom, who was in Boston helping Clark and Guinevere with Benjamin and their new baby Cassius. Together, they made the decision to make an offer for the home. Theirs was the first of several offers on the home submitted that day and the next day, and since they were first, they were accepted!
They closed on their new home the first week of October, just 3 short weeks after their offer was accepted. It's a done deal! They've listed their home in Plano for sale by owner on MLS and Craigslist, and they plan to move to Las Vegas on November 30, whether the Plano home is sold or not.
I'm still reverberating with shock!
We moved to Plano from Provo, UT in 1980 when I was 7 years old. I grew up in that house, only moving away for 3 years to go to college. When I married Chris, we moved to an apartment just 7 minutes away, and when we bought our home in Allen we were glad that it was still just a 20 minute drive from them. We've always had them nearby! I feel like a native Texan, but they never really have. They've always wanted to move back west to be closer to both sides of their family, who almost all live in Idaho, Utah, and Oregon.
They're thrilled, I can tell. They are going to be a 5 hour drive from Staci and Eric AND Lana and Porter, and they're going to love having so much room for people to come and visit. We'll have wonderful family reunions there and there's so much to do in Las Vegas and the surrounding areas. It's a fantastic financial move for them, because their home value is only going to go up, and that provides great stability.
Though I'm really happy for them, I can't put into words exactly how I feel about their move. We've celebrated together for nearly every holiday, big or small. They have been right there for every joy and every sorrow, and their support, love and presence is of immeasurable value in our lives. They are part of the heartbeat of our family, and we will miss them so much!!!. I know we will be warmly enveloped in love and hospitality when we get the chance to fly to Las Vegas every once in a while, but I will always be wistful of "the old days" when I could just drive a few minutes, pull up to my childhood home, run up the walk, and see them anytime.
I love you, Mom & Dad!
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
From Cub Scout to Boy Scout
Ethan has been such a fantastic Cub Scout. He earned so many belt loops that they go all the way around his waist on his belt. As a Webelo, he actually earned all 20 available badges. That means he earned the "Webelo Super Achiever" award! I didn't even know they gave that award, but it sure was neat to see his delight at receiving it!
As a girl, I didn't much get into scouts as a kid (lol). So I wasn't sure about how to do the whole "scout" thing when we started, but it has proven to be an incredible experience for Ethan. He has learned so many new skills, made lasting friendships with his fellow scouts, and he and I have had some great bonding experiences as we've worked on his achievements together.
Now that he's in Boy Scouts, almost of my responsibility to help him achieve his badges has been transferred over to his Boy Scout leaders. I can encourage and support him, but they do all the teaching and projects. I can't believe I'm saying this, but I think I'll actually miss scouting with him!
Now, just 20 months until Tristan enters Cub Scouts. I suppose I can wait. :)
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
20 Years
It's hard for me to believe, but 20 years ago today I fell off the hood of a car and my life changed forever in the blink of an eye.
I was 16 years old. That summer I had gotten my driver's license, started dating, and I had just returned from a trip touring Europe with my Sophomore year's Humanities class. I was about 2 weeks into my Junior year at Plano Senior High School, so I was meeting many new friends and experiencing a brand new school. I had a pretty heavy class load of honors and AP classes, but I wasn't worried because I'd always done pretty well in school.
The rest of the events from the evening of September 15, 1989 have been related to me by other people. I don't remember anything at all from that entire day, nor from several weeks afteward.
A group of my friends had come to our house to carpool to the Plano football game that Friday evening. We were talking and playing and listening to music from the car radios. A few of us, including myself, were relaxing on the hoods of the cars. I was leaning with my back on the windshield of a friend's car. The girl who owned that car decided it was time to go to the game, so she got behind the wheel and started the engine. I don't know if I was just playing around or if I didn't believe she was going to start driving, but I didn't get off hercar. She began moving forward, and the momentum nearly knocked me sideways off the hood. I flipped over onto my stomach and grabbed the windshield wipers. I think a friend in her car told her to stop because they saw me slipping, so she hit her brakes to slow down from the 10-15 miles an hour she was driving.
The stop caused me to fly off the car backwards about 15 feet. I landed first on my heels, then my backside, then elbows, then my head hit the pavement and bounced. When my friend James reached me after the fall, I was muttering gibberish. He picked me up off the pavement and carried me down the street and laid me on my back in the grass in the front yard of our home. I turned over onto my stomach and began mumbling and pulling grass from the yard and rubbing it on the back of my head. I think this action caused enough alarm among the surprised teenagers that they decided to get my mom.
They told her that they thought I might need to go to the hospital because I was dizzy from doing cartwheels on the lawn. I still don't know why they told her that. I don't think anyone understood the situation at that point. My mom put me in the car and drove me the short distance to Plano Medical Center, where they put me in a wheelchair and wheeled me into the hospital. I was having seizures while slumped over in the wheelchair as my mom told the admissions nurse that I was dizzy from cartwheels. That was when my friend Kara mentioned to her that my situation *could* have been caused when I fell off the hood of the car. Needless to say, my mom was pretty upset with my friends!
I was admitted to the ICU because I was quickly slipping into a semi-comatose state, where I stayed for 3 days. The impact from my head hitting the pavement had thrown my brain forward and caused a subdural hematoma. My brain was bleeding, and the swelling was threatening my life. They tried several treatments to decrease the swelling, but after 3 days it was getting pretty serious. I would either need brain surgery to reduce the fluid, or they could try a fluid-reducing diuretic first, as a last-ditch effort. My parents chose the diuretic, praying with all their faith that I could recover from this without undergoing traumatic brain surgery. I was given a priesthood blessing by my dear wonderful father and then they administered the medicine.
Within 1 hour, the swelling decreased dramatically and I came out of the coma. It was a miracle! Years later, I discovered from a neurologist who examined to my case that mine was the only non-surgical recovery he's ever heard of after a brain injury like mine. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that I was given a second chance at life, and that it was a result of great prayer, faith, and fasting on my behalf.
I had lost my short-term memory in the injury, and it took three weeks for it to come back. They told me that I would look around me in puzzlement, turn to whoever was nearby, and ask "Where am I?" every few minutes. Mom and Dad patiently told me the story of what had happened over and over again. In all, I was in the ICU for 3 days and in the CCU for 10 days (I believe), and at least one of my parents was by my side every step of the way. I have tiny fragments of memory from that time. I remember several visits from friends. I know that Mom spent her 39th birthday in the hospital with me. I know that she was Relief Society President at the time, and had the 4 other children at home to care for, from Dallin at age 14 down to Staci, who turned 4 shortly after I came home from the hospital. I even remember bits of time when my Daddy sat next to my hospital bed and read aloud The Scarlet Letter, which was required reading for my Honors English class. Later, when I took the test on that book, I got 100%!
The outpouring of love and support for us was overwhelming. I had many, many visitors while I was in the hospital. My hospital room and bedroom at home were covered in gifts and flowers and balloons for months as I recovered. I will always treasure the service and charity that so many provided to my family!
It was a long, slow process of recovery, but I made it. I am extremely fortunate that I do not have any permanent brain damage from the accident. I did lose most of my sense of smell, and I had seizures for about 2 years. I have struggled with physical weakness since the accident, and I will always be sensitive to extreme temperatures. I wonder often if my infertility and metabolic issues have stemmed from the injury. I will never know how things would have turned out had I not sat on that car, because I can't go back and change the past. All I can do is learn from it.
The most incredible impact from the entire accident, though, is the change in my heart and mind. I took so many things for granted before. My parents, my siblings, my friends, my health and strength, my intelligence, my happiness, my belief in Heavenly Father and Jesus, and even my life. I had the indestructibility of youth and naivete on my side, and I believed nothing could ever go wrong! As I recovered, I discovered an indescribable passion for life. I knew I had been allowed to stay here on earth to accomplish something, though I didn't know what it was. I had a new lease on life, and I was brimming with love and overwhelmed with humility that it was granted to me.
I have carried that feeling with me ever since. I am so grateful for the blessings in my life. My amazing, incredible parents, who carried me through my trials for years and years and years. My dear brothers and sisters (and brothers- and sisters-in-law), who strengthen and uplift me always. My dear husband, who constantly supports and encourages me, and fills in the gaps when I can't always be super-Erlynne. My gorgeous boys, who challenge and delight me every day. My beloved friends, who give me unconditional love and acceptance and without whom I couldn't remain sane. My Savior, whom I love with all my heart and who gave the greatest gift to all mankind, the gift of Eternal Life.
It has been the most incredible 20 years I could imagine. Thanks for the second chance at my life, Heavenly Father! I am honored to have the opportunity to live it!
Friday, January 23, 2009
Ethan Won The Science Fair!!!!!
Being a 5th grader, he was required to enter the science fair this year. We tossed around quite a few ideas before we settled on the perfect one for his project. He built a roller coaster from foam pipe insulation and ran a marble through it to see if the marble would loop the loop in the coaster. Here's a diagram of the coaster:
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The question he was to answer was: In a foam roller coaster with one loop, how high does the starting point have to be in order for the marble to loop the loop?
His hypothesis was that the starting point should be 150 cm high. So Chris and Ethan built the roller coaster and tested the hypothesis by running the marble down the coaster 10 times for each starting point. Turns out, that hypothesis was "not supported" because the intial height needed was only 57 cm.
He did such a great job with the project! We typed his lab journal and made sure we followed all the science fair rules and had plenty of information. In fact, the display board at the end was SO PACKED we nearly didn't have room to fit everything on! He worked on this project from November until Jan 22, when it was due. Here's the finished display board:
The judging was today, and the judges even had Ethan come down and answer some questions about his project. He was so nervous! He thought he was in trouble or that he had done something wrong!
They announced the winners this afternoon a few minutes before the end of school. They named the 3 Honorable Mentions, then went through the winners of 3rd, 2nd and 1st place. Ethan had missed the fact that they were having a Grand Prize winner, so he was bummed that he hadn't gotten notice. And then they called his name as Grand Prize winner of the 4th and 5th grade! He told me he shouted and jumped out of his chair! He said he felt a million emotions all at once, and that he didn't even have the words to describe how he felt.
Tristan has been home with strep throat for 3 days, so he was with me when I picked Ethan up from school today. Ethan bolted to the car, threw the door open, and hollered "I WON!!!!" Tristan and I were so delighted for him! His 4th grade science teacher, Mrs. Fox, came to the door of my car and shared her enthusiasm and pride in him. She said, "Someday, he's going to be a famous scientist, and he'll say, I want to thank my 4th grade science teacher!" She's such a great lady, and she was truly thrilled for him, as are we all. :)
Not only did he have the science fair project due this week, he also competed in the 5th and 6th grade Spelling Bee as the representative for his class. He did a great job, kept his cool, and even though he didn't win, he put in a great effort.
Plus, he got his report card today and got straight A's for the six weeks and for the semester!
We couldn't be more pleased for him. He's worked so hard to do his best, and the efforts he's put in to be a good student have helped him mature and grow into a fine young man.
Now, we get to find out how he does in future competitions with his project, because we're pretty sure he's going to compete at the Allen ISD level! We'll keep you posted!
Sunday, August 31, 2008
August 2008
Ethan turned 10 on August 10. He got money, Denver Bronco's shirts, and his very own set of engraved scriptures for his birthday. He's absolutely growing up into a young man right before our eyes, and it's nearly impossible for us to believe that it's already been 10 years since we welcomed our first bundle of joy into our home! What an adventure it's been!
Chris, Dallin and I got our own little present for Ethan's birthday - we went to a Weird Al Yankovic concert! Having grown up listening to Weird Al, all 3 of us were totally psyched to see Weird Al live! Of course Dallin's a big concert goer, so he'd already seen Weird Al, but this was our first time. We started off by buying concert T-shirts & hats - White & Nerdy, of course! The concert itself was literally 2.5 hours of hysterical laughter therapy! He played every song we wanted to hear - all his hits, including "Fat," "Yoda," his Star Wars American Pie parody, "Amish Paradise," "All About the Pentiums," "White & Nerdy" and even more - all in costume! At one point, he even sang a love song to the audience members, and went out into the second section of the audience singing to people! Between songs while he was changing costumes, he showed clips of "Al TV", which were all pretend interviews with celebrities. He skewered Madonna, Eminem, Michael Stipe, and even Kevin Federline. It was completely hilarious! His encore was to perform "Albuquerque", his 20 minute song - and he did an extended version! Every time he comes back in concert, I want to go! I highly recommend it to any Weird Al fan!
Thanks to Kathy, I discovered Stephenie Meyer's Twilight series. Yes, I know, I'm extremely late to the dance. Many of the readers of this blog have probably been fans since her first book, but I just didn't pay attention to the latest info. I have repented, though. I read every book of the Twilight series plus The Host in the first half of August. I went sleepless some nights, because I simply couldn't put the books down! I bought the series for myself, because I know I'll need to read them again. I haven't experienced a voice like Meyer's before, and she was refreshing and enthralling.
And then, August 25, 2008, there was school. My big guy is in 5th grade, and that is just amazing, but even more so, my BABY is in full day kindergarten! He was lucky enough to get Ethan's kindergarten teacher, Mrs. Parman, as his teacher too. She's an angel with those children - so patient, so loving, and so perfect to help usher them from toddlerhood into elementary school. We know he will be in excellent hands. We met Ethan's teacher Mrs. McDaniel, and she is a lovely, sweet, intelligent woman who will help Ethan navigate through his school year quite effectively. He already loves her.
The night before, Chris gave each of the boys a father's blessing. The strength of the words he spoke moved us all. Every time the boys receive priesthood blessings, I feel the strength of their incredible spirits. It's always emotional and humbling for me to know that we have been entrusted with such remarkable children. What gifts!
Chris took off work for the first day of school, and we walked to school together. We dropped Ethan off first, and after a brief hug and a quick word with his teacher, he sent us on our way. When we took Tristan to class, we were surrounded by tearful parents and tearful children. Everywhere we turned there were camera flashes and videos being taken. Mrs. Parman kindly posed for all the pictures and comforted the crying children and adults. The Campbells were all smiles, though. Tristan was so ready & excited, and we knew he would be delighted with this new experience. I knew I would miss him, but I was more excited for him to experience this new phase of his life.
Chris and I did enjoy that first day of school together. We went shopping, went to lunch, and even went to the tech support department at the Apple store to have my iPhone replaced because it was malfunctioning. It was remarkable that at the end of the excursion, we didn't have to write a check for a babysitter!
So now, as I write this, they've completed their first week. Ethan's still happy about school, although the homework and projects have already started. He will take a bit of adjustment to get back into the swing of things, but he'll do just fine. This is the first year we've walked to & from school instead of driving, so that's a bit much for ALL of us right now, since it's still in the high 90's, humid & muggy outside. We'll enjoy the walk much better when we're not miserable with the heat! Tristan's had a bit more adjustment to make. Before school started, he was a bit standoffish from me, and unwilling to sit for even a moment. He was full of energy all the time. Now, when he gets home from school, he curls up right next to me and rests his head, content to just sit, or to do something calm. He's worn out! He's been a bit more emotional in the afternoons, too. I think he just wasn't expecting it to be so much! But he's doing very well. He's excited to show us that he's able to read some of the words he sees as we read books & signs and such. I predict he'll be reading within a month. We're a family of bookworms - he can't escape it!
So that's August! Who knows what September will bring! Can't wait to find out!
July 2008
It started with Independence Day. Mom & Dad were in Framingham, MA with Clark & Guinevere helping them remodel and move into their new home near Clark's new job at Bose. So we had Dallin and my good friend and bookkeeping client Susan over for a cookout, games, and to go in search of fireworks. Susan brought her dog Socks, who is the dearest dog ever. He is huge - 100 lbs - and is part German Shepherd and part wolf. Sounds intimidating, but he's actually the most intelligent, kind and loving animal I've ever had the pleasure to know.
The food was awesome, the company was excellent, and fun was had by all. We introduced Susan to Apples to Apples, our favorite family game. We drove to Plano to see the fireworks display from a nearby parking lot, and Susan and I got stuck in some eeeevil traffic on the way back to Allen. We enjoyed ourselves, though, jamming out to some awesome tunes and laughing the whole time.
Two days later, I turned the devastating age of 35. I don't know why I've had such a hard time reconciling myself with this age, but it just seems so.... milestone-ish. Like, "old" being the milestone. We decided that the only solution for feeling blue about getting older is to go have a heck of a good time, so that's exactly what we did.
On Saturday, July 5, we took the boys to Main Event and ate pizza and played video games for a couple of hours. That place is great for us, because it has something for everyone in our family to enjoy. Once we got home, Chris and I got all gussied up for a night on the town. We drove to Addison, TX to make our dinner reservation at The Melting Pot, which is one of my favorite restaurants in the world. We always get the Big Night Out when we go there, which starts us off with a cheese fondue of our choice, accompanied by different breads, vegetables and apples to dip into the fondue. Then we go to the salad course, and they feature scrumptious specialty salads to choose from. Then our main course is a selection of meats, chicken, seafood and vegetables which we cook in the boiling herb-infused broth. The food is so tender, moist and flavorful when it's cooked in that broth, and they bring out a selection of about 10 different dipping sauces to really kick it up a notch. Then we finish with the crowning glory of the night - the dessert fondue. They have several different chocolate fondue selections to choose from, and they bring out the items to dip into the fondue - cheesecake, marshmallows, strawberries, bananas, rice crispy treats, and pound cake. Even describing it makes my mouth water, and I'm not even hungry right now! So that was just incredible, and I felt totally spoiled. We then zipped over to a local movie theater and giggled our way through Get Smart. So fun!
Sunday July 6, my actual birthday, we had Bob & Kathy over for dinner, birthday brownies, and ice cream. I got a couple of delightful surprises: Bob & Kathy gave me a jewelry box and an iTunes gift card for my gift, and I found out that Chris' gift to me was the reason for the iTunes card: I'm finally getting an iPhone! The new generation of iPhone would be released that Friday, and I'd get to go camp out for it! LOL! Then I got a phone call from Boston. Mom started out singing the first line of Happy Birthday, Clark joined her in harmony on the next phrase, Guinevere joined on the third phrase, and Dad finished out the last phrase. It was absolutely the most beautiful Happy Birthday serenade I'd ever had, and I was moved to tears. I have the best family ever!
Chris took the next day, Monday July 7, as a vacation day, so we extended the fun and partying even further. He and I went to Hancock (my second time to see it) with Bob, and then we just had a great, relaxing, fun day with the boys. I know I've mentioned this before, but I simply love having a birthday around Independence Day, because it seems like everyone's in the relaxed, fun mode that makes them a blast to be around, and everyone gets time off to celebrate all the good things in life, including freedom, independence, and getting older!
The fun didn't stop there. Friday, I woke up before 4:00 am to get to my nearest AT&T store to buy the new iPhone. I was so glad I got there as early as I did, because I was 23rd in a line of over 300 people by the time they opened at 8:00. It was SO worth it. I was deeply in love within minutes of activating my phone.
The love didn't stop there! Once I got my phone all situated, I packed my bags and hightailed it out of town! I went to Chicago, Illinois for the Pampered Chef National Conference July 16-19. I'd never been to Chicago, but I absolutely fell in love with the town! I was delighted to have regained contacted with a good friend and former college roommate of mine, Tara Ford, who is also a Pampered Chef Consultant. So we roomed together at the conference, and hung around with my group most of the time. Our first night there, we were fortunate to take an evening cruise along the Chicago River and into Lake Michigan. I was absolutely floored at the beautiful bridges, landscaping and gorgeous skyscrapers. We traveled up and down the river listening to the tour guide explain the history of the buildings and of the city, and then we sailed out into the Lake and were treated to the most phenomenal fireworks display I've ever seen, just 50 yards or so from our boat!
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The conference itself was really great. We laughed and were inspired, and we also got to see all the new products being introduced in September. I love Pampered Chef! Tara and I really bonded, and I even got to meet her wonderful sister in law, who took us to a lovely steakhouse in Lincoln Park for dinner one evening we were there. What a great trip! I'm sure thankful to Mom & Chris, who covered the bases for me with the kids while I was away. They were sure glad to have me back!
Ethan received a cool piece of mail shortly after I returned. Because of his performance in his math classes over the past few years as well as his grades on the math portion of the Texas standardized test - the TAKS - he was invited into the Advanced Math course, which he will participate in during 5th and 6th grades at Anderson Elementary. This course actually accelerates their math so that they are finished with 7th grade level math by the end of 6th grade, and therefore able to take Algebra early. He doesn't usually say he enjoys math, but I think it may be because it's not challenging enough for him. This year of school will certainly help us find out if that's true!
So, just in case that month of partying and celebration wasn't enough, we decided to add even MORE! Mom had hired her brother Len to come down and remodel her kitchen during the month of July, and he was just finishing up toward the end of the month. Once they had everything nearly complete, they invited Dallin and our family over for dinner to see the work. It was certainly amazing to see the changes! It's a different kitchen from the one I grew up in! They replaced the linoleum with tile, the countertops with granite, the sinks with deeper ones of much better quality construction, replaced the vent hood over the stovetop with a built-in microwave (I think they replaced the stovetop too, I must check again next time I'm there!). Len designed and cut a beautiful tile backsplash that really makes all the colors pop. It's a truly beautiful kitchen, and Len does excellent work!
After dinner and the detailed inspection, we were idly talking, and I shared my plan. See, one of my favorite birthdays of all time was the year I turned 10 years old. My dad took me to Six Flags Over Texas for the first time - just he and I. It was a big deal to me because with 2 younger brothers and 1 sister (at the time), there wasn't much time for us to get one on one time with our parents. Sure it was hot, and the lines were long, but I felt so special and loved, because I knew he'd really tried to create a special day for me. I REALLY wanted to recreate that day for Ethan for his own 10th birthday. It turns out that Len had really wanted to go to Six Flags while he was here. So we went the next day, July 28, just the 3 of us!
It was super duper hot and humid that day. I think the high was actually 104! We drank tons of water, used tons of sunscreen, and went on every ride we wanted to! Since we were there on a weekday, the lines weren't too bad, and it was awesome to be able to go on all the rides we wanted. Ethan is a roller coaster junkie! His favorite ride is the Titan, which is the tallest and fastest ride at Six Flags. He even got to go on the Batman and Mr. Freeze, which he wasn't tall enough to ride the last time we'd been as a family. After we had gotten our fill of Six Flags, Len suggested we find a Johnny Carino's restaurant to have dinner. We were able to locate one a few miles away from Six Flags, and we are SO glad we did. We had the most incredible Italian meal there! We don't have a Carino's near our house, so now Ethan and I are plotting on when we can take Chris and Tristan on a road trip to experience the incredible food. What a TOTALLY FANTASTIC day!
To top it all off, Chris got a raise and a bonus at work in July! He hasn't even been with First Command Financial Planning for a full year, but they are really happy with his work for them, and they showed it in his paycheck. Hooray!!!!
Yay for an awesome July!!
June 2008
The biggest thing that happened to our family in June 2008 was that SCHOOL LET OUT FOR SUMMER!!!!! No more reports, projects, reading logs, homework, or studying. No more 6:45 am alarm, no more grind! Ethan ROCKED his grades this year, getting straight A's for the semester. Yay smarty pants! First thing on the summer agenda?
TAKE IT EASY!!!!!
For 2 weeks, all we did was sleep in, eat, play video games, swim, watch cartoons, and play together. We took Ethan off of his ADHD medicine since it restricts his appetite and he really needed to put on some weight. We completely decompressed, and it was awesome! It charged the kids' batteries for their fun times this summer. There's something to be said for just "drifting" every once in a while!
The first big thing they did was to attend a Messy Fun Summer Camp at the home of a member of Allen 4th Ward. Monday through Friday from 9 am to noon one week out of each month of June, July, and August, the kids went to the Thomson's home to do all sorts of fun, messy, incredible activities. They put on a play, made costumes, clay sculptures, presents for Father's Day, painted, glued, cooked, jumped on the trampoline, played tag and hide and seek, and had entire days devoted to getting soaking wet with water games. They came home completely filthy and absolutely exhausted every day, and they loved every minute of it. Even if they had charged double the tuition for registration, it would have been completely worth it.
Then Ethan got to attend his second Cub Scout Twilight Camp. They went to Erwin Park in McKinney from 4:30 to about 9:00 pm every day for a week. It was very hot & humid, but they all wore hats, drank lots of water, and tried to find shade wherever they could. Ethan got to bond with his friends, shoot BB guns and arrows, build stuff, and be a really good Cub Scout. He loved it!